How to Live at 20, According to Women Over 40
There are some things that you will not understand until you grow up after twenty and thirty years and do not take advantage of the experience and hindsight.
With that in mind, professor and writer Nyasha Jr. openly called for advice on Twitter, saying she only wants to hear from women who have lived at least four decades on this little blue planet. She asked, “If you are in your 40s, what advice would you give yourself in your 20s?”
Comes with advice on relationships, work, self-care and the absolute certainty that you should wear sunscreen every damn day.
He’s not worth it
It seemed as though everyone wanted to tell their young self that the person they were suffering for and waiting for would almost certainly not be the One. If someone runs up to you, it is because they are not moving towards you. Let them go and focus on yourself. It’s easy to get into this drama, but if someone makes you feel small, unimportant, or fiddles with your head, they are asking too much of you and not giving in return. DOWNLOAD IT. OR HER.
Many women say that stand up for yourself early and often and don’t be afraid to list and guard your accomplishments. Too many young women give loans and don’t even get them. Your career path may change dramatically over the next few decades, but know that what you do has value. Plus, save money. Even if it’s a very small amount, start saving now. As you age, you will learn to better manage your money, but even a small egg can make a big difference in the future.
Have some fun
More than anything, it seems that women over 40 are recommending that you travel after 20. Things will get even more difficult, and seeing the world is a great way to broaden your horizons and increase the depth of your character. It’s also a lot of fun and you should have fun with it. Take pictures! This doesn’t sound like a prompting for a woman in her twenties, but it’s a good reminder that all of these selfies you take now will remain cherished memories in the future.
Take care of yourself and WEAR THE SUNSCREEN
Whether it’s eating right, exercising, or seeing a therapist, the sooner you start working on yourself in a healthy way, the better. But you should also like where you are. Loving your body and your brain is cool, so get started now. The flaws you think you have won’t be a big problem for you one day, so enjoy it. Take off your clothes. Every woman had different ideas about caring for her body, from yoga to vegetables, but they all seemed to agree that you have to protect your skin:
After 40, you have become much the same person you were in your 20s. Anyway, your essence. Many women said they trust this man. She knows what happened. This is your only life, and you don’t need permission to enjoy it or do what you care about:
Good advice from all sides. I get naked immediately.