How to Turn Your Awkwardness Into a Social Asset, With Tai Tashiro
This week on The Upgrade, we were joined by Tai Tashiro , relationship expert and author of Awkward: The Science of Why We Social Awkward and Why It’s Awesome , to discuss why the same qualities can trigger social anxiety or embarrassment. can really work in our favor.
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This week we discussed:
- From funeral home failures to deplorable post-coital comments, New Yorkers share their worst awkward moments.
- Difference between an awkward moment and an awkward person
- Why we shouldn’t use the term “on the autism spectrum” as a generic term for awkwardness
- An evolutionary argument for awkwardness
- Why awkwardness is often associated with excellence
- Methods for Teaching Parents to Improve Social Skills for Parents
- How the digital age has made us all more awkward and what to do about it
- One Reporter’s Story of Overcoming Fear of Phone Calls
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