Heterosexual Guy’s Guide to Anal Play
No, we’re not talking about shoving your penis up your lady’s ass. We’re talking about stimulating your asshole. If you are like many straight people, your interest in this article has dropped dramatically. Many heterosexuals are put off by the idea of anal play (and to be honest, many gay and bi-men are too), and as a result, they are deprived of a whole world of fun. Today we’re here to convince you that it’s time to stop ignoring your ass.
This is the third part in the After Hours series about anal play, which consists of several parts. You can see more posts in this series as they come out here .
Why should you heterosexual guy think about anal play
Because it’s good! End of a paragraph.
But seriously, your anus and rectum , like your penis, are full of nerve endings. The rectum also contains the prostate gland , another pleasure center. In fact, you can only orgasm by stimulating the prostate gland – which many heterosexual men are not aware of. Anal play is great on its own and can lead to incredibly intense orgasms.
Plus, it’s a slight taboo which makes it addictive. While anal sex shouldn’t be a taboo for guys, it is, and learning about taboo can add spice to your sex life. There are several different ways to play with your anus (which we’ll talk about shortly), and it’s fun to venture into uncharted territory.
But does this mean that you are gay?
No. It’s a shame that so many guys are still acting according to the “ass = gay” caveman mentality. Look guys, your sexual identity is determined by the gender of the people you like, not the part of your body that you play with. Many bi and gay men enjoy oral sex. Oral sex also “makes you gay”? Of course not.
The fact is that there are nerve endings in the anus. It’s nice to feel the stimulation there. But the only way anal play determines your sexuality is if you want another guy to stimulate your anus and you decide to identify as gay.
The Grundle: The Gateway Drug
If the thought of getting straight into the anus is too scary for you, you can experiment with your grunt first. Grund, plaque, or otherwise known by its more bizarre name, the perineum , is a strip of skin between the testicles and the anus. The stimulation will give you a little hint of what anal play might be like. It responds well to strong pressure, so try massaging with your middle finger while masturbating. You can also ask your lady to massage this area with her knuckles while she gives you a masturbation or blowjob.
Invite your partner
You should first examine your anus yourself. Check out our article on Applied Game for Beginners for some tips. Even if you don’t like your experience of solo anal play, it is worth asking your partner to take a trip to your anus. Anal play can be much better when performed by someone else. If you’re nervous and ask your lady to poke your ass, send her this article and say something like, “I’ve never thought about this before, but this article makes you wonder what is worth trying. Are you in the game? “She has a right to her own sexual boundaries, so she can say no.” But a good sex partner should at least respect your requests. If she makes any derogatory or derogatory comments, she is not a keeper.
If she wants to give it a try, tidy up and get ready to go. Let her start masturbating or giving you a blow job. Make sure you are aroused before venturing into the back door. When you tell her that you are ready, ask her to start by touching the tip of her lubricated finger to your anal. She should keep her finger in this position and continue to do other things. If you feel good, ask her to put her finger to the first joint. Ask her to push in slowly, hold your finger there for a second, then slowly release it back. She should continue at this pace for several more rounds. If you like it, you can ask her to go further, speed up, or do both.
Keep talking about what you like the most. After that, enjoy the ride and congratulate yourself on being mature enough to experience the joy of anal play!