Bring Sex Back Into Your Relationship With a Sensual Focus
It’s not very sexy to talk about it, but sexual routines do happen. Maybe something embarrassing happened that distracted you and your partner from sex. Maybe you just became too comfortable not to. Whatever the reason, this video (a bit NSFW by the way) will show you how to get out of a rut using the Sensate Method.
As the School of Life explains, usually something happens that makes sex a sensitive issue in a relationship rather than a fun way to build intimacy. Maybe there was an attack of impotence. Maybe you had a big fight over something related to sex. Whatever the problem is, the more pressure, fear, and anger you put on it, the less you want to have sex.
To combat this, they recommend sensory focus , a technique invented by researchers Masters and Johnson . Basically, it includes a series of exercises that focus on the “sensory experience” of sex. The video explains each step in detail and you can check it above or follow the link below.
How to Start Having Sex Again | School of Life