End the Unwanted Conversation Politely With a Specific Excuse
Whether you’re at work, a meeting, or another social event, getting away from boring conversation is an invaluable skill. The trick to making a good excuse is in the details.
Lynn Waymon, network consultant and co-author of Strategic Connections , advises avoiding obvious and overt excuses when you want to back down. People can tell when you’re lying and that you don’t want to talk to them when you say something like, “I’m going to have another drink” or “I think we should both go in a circle.”
Instead, be specific and polite. For example, Philip K. Thomas, regional chairman of Vistage, an executive coaching organization, recommends that you say something like “I want to move on because I promised myself that I’ll meet at least 10 new people tonight.” The more specifically you apologize, the less likely they are to think you are cheating. Then finish on a good note by expressing your appreciation and thanking them for talking to you . You can find more tip-off tips at the link below.
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