How to Get Feedback From Partners?

In the comments section of yesterday ‘s cunnlingus guide, many of you talked about how different women like different things when it comes to oral use. Of course, what works for one person may not necessarily work for another, so it’s important to get feedback from your partner about what they like. Today we want to talk about how you are going to get this contribution.

Almost everyone agrees that feedback is important. At the same time, when you are close with someone, you have to start somewhere! Your partner saying, “Hey, I would like to go at you right now, but first tell me exactly what you want me to do to you,” is not entirely appealing. (Or maybe it is?) It’s easier to tell someone what you like when you have a coordinate system or things to compare (“faster”, “to the left” or “don’t you dare stop doing this!”)

How do you get feedback from your partners? Are you more explicit or hidden? How is your approach to new partners different from your approach to a permanent partner? Let us know below!


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