Return Dry Friction
Remember when you were a desperate teenager, plodding furiously on a basement couch in the agony of youthful passion? Don’t leave dry bumps in the dust: do it tonight.
Why do you have to do this tonight
Dry rubbing can be enjoyable for many reasons. It can bring up nostalgic memories of those simpler times when just rubbing against someone and kissing for hours was enough to satisfy you sexually.
But the best reason to consider adding dry humps back to your repertoire is simply that they are enjoyable. Rub against another person and feel that his desire is growing. Dry petting works especially well for women, especially those who use strong pressure or rubbing in their masturbation routine . Ladies, if you masturbated as a child, climbing on poles or ropes in a jungle gym, rubbing against the edge of a table or mattress, or pushing hard objects such as a remote control, chances are good that you might experience dry rubbing orgasms. …
Working out can be incredible fun. You can use it to extend foreplay until you both need more contacts. Or you can make it even more mocking and not allow each other any release.
Dry sex is also one of the safest types of sex. The chances of contracting an STI or getting pregnant are incredibly low, but you must of course be careful to avoid skin contact with body fluids.
Who needs to do it tonight
“Dry sex” is not discriminatory on the basis of sexual orientation; it works for one and all! It is also an activity that you can enjoy on your own using dry pillows, mattresses, or sofa cushions (let your imagination guide you!).
Dry rubbing is also fun to mix things up in the bedroom. If you’re tired of the same old routine, try spending an evening (or heck, a whole week!) When all you’re allowed to is each other’s dry bumps. This can turn into an incredibly hot joke. You may even try not to allow each other to orgasm, just to exacerbate your sexual distress.
Some men may also find that they can last longer than any other sexual activity. If orgasm timing is an issue in your relationship, dry lovemaking can be one way to prolong your intimate moments. You could make it the main event or make it a foreplay.
How to do it tonight
It’s easy to get started . Just ask your partner, “Have you ever dried a hump when you were a teenager?” Or start rubbing against your partner while kissing. If they try to take off their or your clothes, take their hand and say, “This is really good now. Do you want to continue? “
Good dry sex positions include the good old missionary and spoon (you can start a great lazy dry ride while lying on the couch in front of the TV). Or try putting one partner on your lap with both partners looking at each other. Women may like to sit on their partner’s hip. Another option is to use your hands to masturbate over your pants, perhaps as a prelude to a full dry sex session?
The clothes you wear while rubbing can make a huge difference. Some people like the rough, limited feel of jeans (if you’re a dude, you might need to stretch and straighten your pants to make sure your penis isn’t rubbing directly against the fly). If this seems too strong for you, try exercise shorts or just underwear. Avoid belt buckles like the plague!
If you are a woman, you will want to know if you like indirect stimulation or if you like trying to spread your labia (stretch your hand to do this) to get more intense clitoral stimulation.
From there, just go to town and jump! Unlike intercourse, dry friction does not require any unusual angles or techniques. Beat as much as you like!