Have a Successful First Date by Planning the Same Date Every Time
Dating, of course, is a subtle dance in which many unknown factors are present at any given time.
That’s why, if you want to eliminate the risk and focus on its relationship with this man, whom he had met for the first time, you must assign each a first date in the same day.
Always going to the same place (and if you want to go up a notch by ordering the same), you don’t have to rely on some unknowns to change your perception of the new groom – maybe we got close because of poor service? Am I in love or was the fried chicken really good? Was I angry that they offered a place in their area?
Using this method also eliminates repetitive “Where do we go?” “What do you like?” and “What’s convenient for both of us?” All you have to do is take the initiative and say, “I know a good place. We’re coming here. “
Of course, if you want to be even more scientific (or, as some colleagues have said, a “sociopath”), you can get an extra supervised pattern by doing a few dates . That’s right, I had a patented three-date system: 1) Same ice cream spot – nice and laid-back, low stakes, and if they don’t like that ice cream then they don’t deserve a second date. 2) Same Italian restaurant – central location, you know you’re ready to spend at least an hour with them, and pasta is fine. 3) Dinner at my house – and if you’re wondering, yes, every time I cooked the same dish.
That’s all: no thought, no hesitation. Just watch how different people react to the same situation to understand their true nature. And maybe don’t let them know that you also took dozens of other dates there.
* Yes, I am actually in a happy long-term monogamous relationship, so this is further proof that this system works.