Introducing Fireworks to Your Child for the First Time
The 4th of July fireworks evoke the warmest childhood memories of summer. BBQ and family time, pools and lightning, sparklers and late nights. It’s natural to want to share all of this with your kids.
However, for many toddlers, the annual light show is not so much festive as it is intimidating. To increase your chances of breaking through the first boom, you need to plan ahead. Here are some tips to help curb your kids’ potential fear of fireworks.
Discuss it in advance
Explain where you are going, why you are celebrating, and what you will see when you get there. The fear of the unknown is powerful, and even the word “fireworks” can sound quite intimidating if you’ve never seen one before. Show them pictures or videos of the fireworks so they can visualize what is happening before the big night.
Set yourself up for success
Your kids will stay up late, which can be risky even without fireworks. Bring snacks, drinks, and other entertainment like glow sticks to pass the time while you wait for the show to begin. Better yet, take your noise canceling headphones with you for sensitive ears. The Snug Company produces an inexpensive pair with high ratings .
Come with Plan B
Especially if your child is for the first time and you do not know how he will react, consider an escape plan. Park in a location where it is easiest to get out quickly and open a store at the end of the crowd. The view may not be as stellar, but it will be worth it if a landslide occurs.
Consider viewing from a distance
You may be able to find an open space near your home where you can actually see the fireworks in the nearby town. Fireworks can seem less intimidating when they are farther away and less loud.
Remember that the situation is getting better every year.
This is not a fear to be overcome this year. The year can make a big difference in what children can endure or are willing to enjoy. If you need to throw away the towel or skip it altogether, remind yourself that there is always next year.