If You Are Thrifty and Your Friends Are Not, Make an Invitation
We don’t always have the same money habits as our friends. If you’re thrifty, it can be frustrating to always turn down a friend who loves to go out and spend money. You can easily deal with this by sending an invitation.
This seems painfully obvious, but it is a problem that sometimes occurs. Many people find it difficult to spend time with lavish friends or even a less frugal partner than them. I have actually seen some money experts propose to abandon wasteful friends in favor of thrifty ones. But it seems silly to give up friendships simply because someone doesn’t share your financial habits.
MoneyNing points to the best answer right under your nose:
It’s simple, but it took me so long to realize that one powerful switch can change everything. The key to being a thrifty friend is to initiate an invitation on terms that fit your budget. I usually invite friends over to my place for dinner or somewhere for happy hour. I also enjoy walking, walking in the park, or drinking coffee or tea. All friendships are different, but these are my humble helpers who show that I want to spend time with my friends without spending a lot of money.
If you have a friend or even a partner who always makes offers that cost money, make a difference. Start video meetings. They won’t feel left out and you won’t feel like you’re on too much of a budget.
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